Based on the graphic we get lonelier over time but we also spend a lot of time with other people and I think that's an important point to notice, the time we spend with others becomes more valuable because it becomes more scarce over the years but doesn't this mean we can also love more easily the people we keep and who are still in our lives? so even if some people, friends, coworkers fade from our lives it's also easier to love the ones who remain, the ones who love you enough to subscribe to our joys and fears
Of everything I’ve read from you, this is one of the pieces I’ve liked the most. There is a rare balance between clear ideas and honest emotion, it makes you think about people you love and if you manage your love well
If this reflects the thinking behind “Control”, it will be very interesting and special.
As sad as it is real, the last week one of my friends in my close circle, I'd said within the 15 people, wanted to share with the group of friends that she got pregnant to celebrate it, but it was so difficult to coordinate a meeting in person with all of us that she decided to share it in the WS group we have.
Not to say how hard it becomes once the members of the group become parents, a single kid may require more than 40% of our time.
The idea that love is limited by time makes the tradeoffs feel real instead of sentimental. I appreciate the honesty about how curiosity can pull you toward connection while reality forces you to prioritize. The reminder that every new bond draws from the same finite pool is sobering. There’s also something humbling about acknowledging the people who drifted and still shaped you. It leaves me thinking more intentionally about who sits in that core circle right now.
Based on the graphic we get lonelier over time but we also spend a lot of time with other people and I think that's an important point to notice, the time we spend with others becomes more valuable because it becomes more scarce over the years but doesn't this mean we can also love more easily the people we keep and who are still in our lives? so even if some people, friends, coworkers fade from our lives it's also easier to love the ones who remain, the ones who love you enough to subscribe to our joys and fears
Congratulations Freddy, I can't wait for the book!
Of everything I’ve read from you, this is one of the pieces I’ve liked the most. There is a rare balance between clear ideas and honest emotion, it makes you think about people you love and if you manage your love well
If this reflects the thinking behind “Control”, it will be very interesting and special.
As sad as it is real, the last week one of my friends in my close circle, I'd said within the 15 people, wanted to share with the group of friends that she got pregnant to celebrate it, but it was so difficult to coordinate a meeting in person with all of us that she decided to share it in the WS group we have.
Not to say how hard it becomes once the members of the group become parents, a single kid may require more than 40% of our time.
The idea that love is limited by time makes the tradeoffs feel real instead of sentimental. I appreciate the honesty about how curiosity can pull you toward connection while reality forces you to prioritize. The reminder that every new bond draws from the same finite pool is sobering. There’s also something humbling about acknowledging the people who drifted and still shaped you. It leaves me thinking more intentionally about who sits in that core circle right now.
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Greetings from Colombia.
Excelente 👌 este es un cambio real de de mindset.
😔 que fuerte, pero es cierto.
True.